What is Grief Work and Why do It?
Work! Who likes it? Possibly, just the word, W-O-R-K, conjures up negative memories of pulling weeds in the ivy bed as a kid. At least it does for me. But… Read more What is Grief Work and Why do It? →
Honesty, An Over looked Grief Virtue
Throughout my active grief, I was tempted to withhold what I was honestly experiencing, thinking I would spare myself added discomfort, or spare the one who casually asked, “How are… Read more Honesty, An Over looked Grief Virtue →
The Fear of Forgetting a Deceased Loved One
He sobbed, trying to get out the words through the deep pain in his heart so I could hear it. “I . . . (taking a breath and a gulp… Read more The Fear of Forgetting a Deceased Loved One →
Selfless Listening is Authentic Caring
Coming along side a grieving friend immediately after the death of someone they love is probably one of the most intentional acts of selfless caring we can do. But how… Read more Selfless Listening is Authentic Caring →
Life on the Line ~ Journaling through your Grief
When you write about your pain, you are putting yourself on the line ~ the safest line you can find. It is the line on a piece of paper that… Read more Life on the Line ~ Journaling through your Grief →
The Two “A’s” of Comforting a Grieving Friend
I know you don’t mean to avoid the hurting coworker. You didn’t intent to exclude the grieving mother in the group. The bereaved widower is not left out intentionally. It… Read more The Two “A’s” of Comforting a Grieving Friend →
Declare Your Freedom to Grieve
Last week, many across America picnicked, paraded, and feasted. This is our annual holiday to celebrate the ideals we cherish as Americans. But last week, today, tomorrow and the next… Read more Declare Your Freedom to Grieve →